The
Gentle Art of Not Knowing
At
the time of writing this there are a group of miners being pulled
up from a mine in Chile. At this very moment half of them have
been rescued. On August 5th 2010 those thirty-three men were clueless
that their day down the mine had no intention of ending in the
usual way. A fall of rocks trapped them down there until October
13th and 14th 2010. The first 17 days in the dark were amongst
their worst days there for they did not know if they would come
out alive. Each person right then and there began their individual
journey to a far deeper understanding of whatever life meant to
them and also what death meant to them too. Some continued on
in fear right to the end and found it all a living hell. Others
put their trust in God and the universe and took each moment as
it came and acted accordingly and for them it deepened their spiritual
connection and made the experience one of being in the now and
not that of a living hell on earth. The physical outcome for the
men was the same. They were all rescued one by one from the mine
by stepping into the appropriately named Phoenix capsule and being
winched to the surface.
Life
is a bit like that if not a lot like that. Something happens.
We have no idea what the outcome may be but we can choose how
we behave whilst it is happening. We can act on it or we can react
to it. Acting on it is taking the necessary steps as each moment
unfolds without adding more stories to it. Just looking the facts
in the face and then doing whatever is needed. Reacting to it
is more of a knee-jerk reaction that can lead into more dramas.
Stories are added, fears are dramatised and things begin to go
off at a tangent
Thirty-three
men and probably thirty-three different experiences. Millions
of people on the earth and all having their own unique experience.
Our experiences of life depend very much on what we hold as our
limitations and expectations, our past experiences, our stories
and also on how much we let go and allow ourselves to peacefully
not know the outcome.
To
not know the outcome but to still trust and hold it all together
and allow what will be to be shows great strength and spiritual
understanding. A friend has just come through such an experience.
This friend found themselves with nothing much left of their lives,
no job, no proper home and a broken relationship. With nothing
left to lose and an attitude of trust they found a certain kind
of freedom from that and went forward from day to day.They were
in the moment and allowed the not knowing to add a flavour of
adventure to the whole experience. This does not mean to say that
they did not suffer moments when they felt very down and lost
but still they looked ahead to a brighter future and held that
vision and acted rather than reacted. This brought the friend
through to a positive outcome with a bright "magical"
future. Things happened and they went with the flow. This friend
has my deep regard, respect and love.
We
simply do not know the outcome of many many things. Even the seemingly
little things as well as the big things. We can go through our
day and not know the profound effect a word said or a smile given
or a kind action can have on the lives of those around us. To
not know the effect of the beautiful email sent or the kind text
message should not stop us from sending more. We can only see
the small screen from where we are standing. The larger screen
may become visible as time passes or maybe never at all. How about
doing these things because we are them from the core outwards
and not because we want thanks or recognition. What is life all
about if at the end of the day we cannot feel that we have acted
from our hearts and been the vibrancy of life itself no
matter what . That is living the gentle art of not knowing.
We
are spiritual beings having a human experience and at any moment
the Phoenix can rise and transform our lives beyond our wildest
dreams... Ask the miners :-)
PR
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